Humans are funny characters. We have believed since our brains came on line, (well most of them) that we are actually in control of…something. Given enough power and “thoughts and prayers” we can change us, our families, hell, even the world.

Remember the saying “we plan and God laughs” well there it is. No matter what you do, how you wish it, ultimately, something else determines the outcome. Every outcome! Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose. Sometimes you meet your goals and sometimes your goals will be blown out of the water.

How does a human meet the future when safety and assurance is what everyone wants? Most believe…if I go this way this will happen, if I do this thing this other thing will happen. Life Goals! I can win at this.

Now once you get the bigger picture of what life on this planet is truly about, then goal planing becomes different, it’s a tool, something to use to get you where you… truly have no idea where you are going. You are on a journey and you don’t know how it will manifest. But that’s ok!

Another frustrating issue with humans is the inability to pivot.

If you are making plans and establishing goals, flexibility of your wish and goal must be paramount. I want to be president or I want to lose weight. Either type of goal first must be met with truth. I’ve known people who say they want to lose weight and never do.

Goals need big G energy, meaning put your goals around big ticket items, health, security of your person, happiness of your family, contributing to the health of your community. Again nothing is ever set, change is inevitable. Yesterdays goals forgotten and new goals arise, and nothing ever changes.

When your goals are big goals, the small stuff like how is anything going to manifest, moves towards new understanding because life is a journey and like a river you never know what’s around the bend. Or what’s in that box of chocolates!!!

Keep your eyes forward and up! The opportunities that are going to change your life will come to you, be on the look out!

Learn the pivot dance! Don’t get stuck trying to change when what you need to do is LIVE! Live each day, Live Well! LIVE LIVE LIVE LIVE!

Your goals will sort themselves out! And I’m old enough to know!